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  • Hi there! I’m a mindfulness aficionado and nature enthusiast, and this is my website. I am part-Indonesian and part-Dutch, lived around the world and call London, U.K. my home. I look after a dog, five cats, one squirrel, and a handful of birds and I can’t say no to dry martini.
Illustration of a bird flying.
  • Fate: Is it predetermined?

    A few fortnight ago, my sister and I were accompanied by a young man in his early thirties. As we sat on a round table, the young man told us how his uncle passed. As it happened, his uncle had a cardiovascular issue but was not aware of it, and because of something he consumed,…

    June 6, 2024
  • The case of missing half dish: fact, not fiction

    Almost a week ago, I bought one of my favourite dishes: rice cake with fried egg, tofu, bean sprouts, and oozing peanut sauce. I immediately dug my head in and savoured each bite; given the size, I could only finish half of the dish, so I decided to keep the other half for another day.…

    May 8, 2024
  • Age of the feminine: has the table turned?

    In a cosy cafe, insulated from the mini storm outside, my friend, her dog, and I enjoyed the quiet joys of an early spring morning. At one point, she asked me a personal question: “Do you feel useless or incomplete as a woman?” I looked at her with my mouth slightly open. “You know that…

    April 15, 2024
  • Moving: a key to longevity

    This morning, a condition I inherited after an accident I experienced many years ago revisited me. I was so uncomfortable I decided to revisit my old habit. Why did I choose to revisit my old habit? When our dog was still around, I visited the parks every morning without fail (unless London’s weather was too…

    April 10, 2024
  • Friends: how toxic are they?

    Asians love WhatsApp groups, social media engagements, and other group activities. I suppose this is understandable; their world is dense, polluted, cramped, and jarring, and the only time they meet is through other means than personal connection. Why is toxicity important to know? Some of my friends are losing their grip; they feel increasingly isolated…

    April 9, 2024
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